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dhari: yeah plus if you go into a relationship with the mindset of like finding someone who likes
you, then how do i explain it, your in the relationship more for like the benefits that they give
you, like the validation, rather than love and thats not a good way to enter a relationship.
mira: and thats not fair to you or the other person
mira: ive kinda had the same thing, like, i like, i felt like, i dont know like, i just wanted the
confirmation that i wasnt like unlovable right? so i had like a bunch of talking stages, nothing
happened obviously, but at some point you just have to realize its not about like whether, like it
doesnt matter if like i dont know. you just have to find the self confidence. it doesnt matter what
anybody else thinks, its matters what you think about yourself. cause if your, cause youll attract
people who are like you, if your a good person, your confident in yourself, your basically a whole
by yourself, like thats what your gonna attract. you dont wanna be attracting these bums bro.